easier said than done..
perbualan ini mengambil tempat di dalam sebuah bilik di salah sebuah hostel institut pengajian tinggi di malaysia.
(nama yang digunakan bukanlah nama sebenar)
ryhn: "Daad. you know how sometimes we get hurt, by a person/persons, of either what they do, say, or whatever; which they're not aware of their doings- yeah, how do we deal with that? and the fact that you know its best for you to avoid that person, but you just can't. maybe coz they're your friend."
daad: "tell them how you feel, or what they've done la"
ryhn: "that's forever not in the option list. telling is just a no-no. you see Daad, we know that person doesn't have any intention to hurt us. they don't even know that we're hurt by them. personally, i know the solution is best to just avoid and just go far, but when that's not ever possible (at least for now) and that would be compromising the friendship; how? "
daad: "you just telan. just telan. it's hard in the beginning. really hard."
ryhn: "yeah, i know. i've seen you deal with that. why do you think i'm asking you this?" *grin*
daad: "you just have to learn to telan and disregard. in time, it won't affect you anymore"
ryhn: "it's all in us, really kan."
Anger, when they normally don't get to you, once they do, they hit hard. it's all in us. And they can last pretty long, and takes effect in many different inexplicable way and manner. We'd like to think it's gone, but once in a while, and often more, especially when least expected or wanted; they come knocking the little heart, causing disturbance and conflicts. Worst, when it affects others around you. Especially your loved ones. It's unfair, and you have got to deal with it. I guess it's all in us. Your struggle alone. Your battle alone. Just telan. Sounds so simple kan? Easier said than done i heard, easier said than done i say.
(nama yang digunakan bukanlah nama sebenar)
ryhn: "Daad. you know how sometimes we get hurt, by a person/persons, of either what they do, say, or whatever; which they're not aware of their doings- yeah, how do we deal with that? and the fact that you know its best for you to avoid that person, but you just can't. maybe coz they're your friend."
daad: "tell them how you feel, or what they've done la"
ryhn: "that's forever not in the option list. telling is just a no-no. you see Daad, we know that person doesn't have any intention to hurt us. they don't even know that we're hurt by them. personally, i know the solution is best to just avoid and just go far, but when that's not ever possible (at least for now) and that would be compromising the friendship; how? "
daad: "you just telan. just telan. it's hard in the beginning. really hard."
ryhn: "yeah, i know. i've seen you deal with that. why do you think i'm asking you this?" *grin*
daad: "you just have to learn to telan and disregard. in time, it won't affect you anymore"
ryhn: "it's all in us, really kan."
Anger, when they normally don't get to you, once they do, they hit hard. it's all in us. And they can last pretty long, and takes effect in many different inexplicable way and manner. We'd like to think it's gone, but once in a while, and often more, especially when least expected or wanted; they come knocking the little heart, causing disturbance and conflicts. Worst, when it affects others around you. Especially your loved ones. It's unfair, and you have got to deal with it. I guess it's all in us. Your struggle alone. Your battle alone. Just telan. Sounds so simple kan? Easier said than done i heard, easier said than done i say.
*ryhn*
2:22 PM
3 y0ur say:
best done than said. at least something is done.
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widaad, at 6:18 PM
maafkan die..^_^
that's what sirah taught us.. remember the man yang Rasulullah cakap seorang sahabat tu akan masuk syurga due to memaafkan org..it maybe hard..but little by little we can do it..insya-Allah..
im speaking this to myself too..may i can apply it..
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Rijaluddin*~Aroma Cinta Illahi~*, at 12:58 AM
bukan salah orang tu.. its not the fault of that person at all. it's not anything that person could do to amend things..that's why i say it's difficult..it's like a battle in your own self. your struggle alone. a conflict inside.
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ryhn, at 4:29 PM
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